Demola Lagbaja, head of the Lagbaja family from Ilobu in Osun State, expressed his deep regret that Lt. Gen. Taoheed Lagbaja, who passed away on November 5, did not have the chance to experience life outside of military service.
He made this statement during a condolence visit by the Old Boys Association of St. Charles Grammar School, Osogbo, to the family’s residence in Ibadan.
Demola reflected on the family’s expectations, noting that they had hoped their beloved son would retire after his term as Chief of Army Staff (CAS) and finally enjoy the fruits of his many years of dedication and service. “It was our hope that he would have time to savor his achievements and lead a peaceful life after years of commitment in the military,” he said. Despite this loss, the family has found strength in their faith, accepting what has happened as part of God’s plan. “Some tears will never dry,” he added, acknowledging the profound sense of loss that the family feels.
He described how Lt. Gen. Lagbaja devoted almost his entire life to military service, joining the army immediately after completing his A-level studies. Reflecting on his son’s dedication, Demola expressed pride in Lt. Gen. Lagbaja’s legacy. “He made us proud through his hard work and service. Although he couldn’t fulfill our hope of a peaceful retirement, we wish him eternal rest.”
Demola extended his gratitude to the Old Boys Association for their visit and for the respect shown to his late son, who has been widely remembered with admiration and honor since his passing.
The delegation, led by Mr. Sola Omopo, Chairman of the Board of Trustees for St. Charles Grammar School, presented a condolence letter to the family. Omopo praised Lt. Gen. Lagbaja, describing him as a dedicated member of the association who remained committed to the school even while serving in the military.
He highlighted a major project the General had initiated for his alma mater—a substantial N550 million construction endeavor that was already 80 percent complete at the time of his passing. “His sudden departure was a shock to all of us, both here and among our members abroad,” Omopo said, explaining that this shared grief motivated their visit to the family.
